Saturday, 30 January 2016

New glasses

I last had an eye test and new specs in October 2013. It was time for another test, and I knew that this would mean a new prescription, and very probably new varifocal lenses.

I was right. Both eyes had become a bit more long-sighted. Thankfully, the trend for my left eye to 'catch up' with my right (the left eye had been markedly short-sighted thirty years ago) had continued. Well! A couple more years of this, and I'll be able to use binoculars again without provoking a headache.

But longsightedness means that without glasses, everything close by is very indistinct - meaning out of focus. Reading is impossible unless I have my glasses on. Which means that I wear them all the time except when sleeping. They are part of my face, part of my personality - and are not at all an optional accessory, to be worn or left off at a whim. I therefore go for functional, robust, almost utilitarian specs that look fine and appropriate in any situation. That basically means thin unfussy metal frames, and not heavily-styled designer frames that make a fashion statement.

This time I couldn't have my existing frames again (which were in the style that Specsavers called 'Krissy') because they were no longer available. If I wanted to stay with simple gold metal frames, I'd have to go for their nearest current equivalent (called 'Raquel'). These were only slightly different, and certainly the helpful and interested girls at Specsavers decided that the 'Raquel' frames suited me the best of the three possible choices that I considered. Good enough. I paid my £243, and I went back to collect them two days ago, once my coughs and sneezes had subsided (I'd been suffering with a New Year cold for several days).

The 'Raquel' frames, though still oval, were a little larger than the 'Krissy' frames. This meant that I'd enjoy better peripheral vision. They were also less inclined to slip down my nose. The combined effect was to reveal more of my eyes. See what you think. Here I am, looking a bit windswept, wearing the new 'Raquel' frames outside Brighton Museum & Art Gallery, within minutes of leaving Specsavers:


And here's myself wearing the old 'Krissy' frames a month ago in an Italian restaurant in Rochester:


I do prefer people seeing more of my eyes, not less. We communicate so much with our eyes, and it's not good to have them obscured. That's one reason I don't often wear sunglasses. I don't want to hide. I want to be open and on display. It's a form of honesty. All too often the top edge of the 'Krissy' frames used to slide down almost to the level of my pupils, compromising that open look, so that I was frequently having to push then up again. Now, with my new 'Raquel' frames, I can be confident that my eyes will be much easier to see.

One of the choices I considered this time was 'Alice'. They were in fact my initial choice back in October 2013, and here I am at home at that time, trying to decide whether I really liked them:


From the front, yes, they were all right; and they were comfortable; but they had fussy decoration on the nose bridge and side-arms that irritated me, and I wasn't sure whether the overall effect was quite what I wanted. Fortunately Specsavers let me change to the 'Krissy' frames, which were plainer but (I felt) suited my face better.

So far I haven't had any 'buyer regret' with the 'Raquel' frames, and I feel I will stick with them. They were only £45, which isn't much when you look at what opticians charge for 'designer' frames. I'm afraid those mostly suit young faces, or at least long thin faces! They don't look so nice on round, pudgy faces. I'm content. It saves me money, and sidelines worrying about what looks sharp and trendy.

6 comments:

  1. Sorry to hear about suffering the cold, guess that is why we were suffering withdrawal symptoms from your lack of posts. Just had to go varifocal myself, getting frames chosen is one of life's tougher jobs! Looks like you made a great choice and can now type away agin.

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  2. Yes, I think it was a cold I had early in January - which I thought buzzed off with too little drama - resurging and giving me a few days' of thick-headedness that made (as you correctly surmise) blogging and other profound mental activities impossible.

    But I'm nearly well again.

    Lucy

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  3. I wonder if it (my cold) was the Black Curse of the Clarksons? After my previous post, I mean.

    Lucy

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  4. I enjoyed reading your post as I have had to buy new glasses recently as well. I know how confusing it can be sometimes trying to get a pair that are just right. I argree that it's better that people can see more of our eyes. Your new glasses look great, I hope you continue to enjoy wearing them.

    Lucius Calhoun @ Bolton Vision Centre

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  5. I completely agree with you. I have always chosen simple metal frames for myself because it's true, we say so much with our eyes and it is a terrible shame to hide away behind chunky, fussy frames. I think you have made a perfect choice with your new glasses and they suit you perfectly.

    Jamaal @ Eye Clinic London

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  6. The last time I took my son to the eye doctor, he had perfect 20/20 vision. Something happened when he was playing football and he began to lose his eyesight. The doctor told me to not be worried, that it was a combination of age and the injury, that he would be fine after a while. He was right because my soon was back to 20/20 later in the year.

    Doris Gibbs @ Moody Eyes

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